Butterfly

This morning, Taran, did not want to go to the camp, he wanted to stay home and kept asking me to work from home, I couldn’t, I feel so crappy when i say no to him. Time is slipping by, he is growing up and the choices we make, make it harder to spend quality bonding time. I hate myself for that,i hope someday he’ll know what I mean.

Tania knows when i'm leaving, and gets very upset! Her crying and sad droopy face...is hard to get past! the woes of working mom are too pricey! I love you much my loves...

On my way to work, I heard Matthew Hussey’s interview on Elvis Duran show and felt like sharing what I heard. It’s dating advice interpreted as a story about a butterfly. There are three kind of human behaviors and patterns. 

In one instance when a exotic thing as a butterfly lands in a person’s hand, some don’t even have time to look at the beauty and wonder of  a butterfly so the butterfly leaves…it goes away, it knows it's not valued.

In the second instance, when the butterfly lands in a person’s hand, the person is so terrified that such a beautiful thing finally landed with them, that they hold it tight, so what happens to the butterfly in such case…. it gets squished or it tries to look for creaks to escape.

In the last instance, when the butterfly lands in a person’s hand, the person puts his other hand around the butterfly to shield it from the wind.

When you are with someone – that person and you should be like that to each other. You both would know what I mean when the right time comes, until then don’t waste your time with people who cant lend the kind hand or be the butterfly in your lives.

http://www.elvisduran.com/media/play/love-advice-matthew-hussey-dishes-about-24539286/

In the same show, he talked about people who are always teasing as being playfully teasing - and how that can be very exhausting. Yet, there are some who are always so earnest and intense, that it can get boring....wow! Neither is a good thing, the balance of knowing when to be teasing and plyaful and when to be earnest is the tie breaker. 

I wish that for both my kids. My experiences are coming in at a steep cost and leading to dead ends, and not knowing the wealth of information and life experinces out there, is taking me many steps back.